6 Meaningful Ways to Memorialize a Pet

Approximately 85 million households in the United States have at least one pet.

A pet is often a best friend, a confidant, and an unwavering source of consolation. Our animal counterparts are regularly thought of as a part of the family and many of us grieve their loss the same way we would the loss of a spouse, parent, brother, or sister.

I have two 10 year old labradoodles and the best part of my day is coming home and watching them literally jump in circles and wag their tails. It’s difficult to bear the thought of one day saying goodbye to my adored dogs, but it brings me peace knowing they will be memorialized in a special way.

Honoring and celebrating the life of a pet softens our pain and reminds us of the good times shared with our furry, scaly, or feathered friends.

If you are looking for meaningful ways to memorialize a pet, here are some options to consider.

#1. Design a Grave Marker

A grave marker is a permanent expression of love for a pet laid to rest at a cemetery.

Typically, pet grave markers are made out of bronze, granite, or marble and include a name, set of dates, words of endearment, and sometimes an emblem such as a paw print, ball of yarn, or bone.

Those looking for a one-of-a-kind tribute might want to incorporate a picture into the marker. Trigard Memorials, for example, offers portrait medallions and is also able to transform a photograph into a full color or oxide bronze marker.

#2. Wear a Piece of Keepsake Jewelry

Jewelry such as a wedding ring or necklace passed down from generation to generation can be one of our most prized possessions. A piece of pet remembrance jewelry may be just as valuable and can help keep the animal that was near and dear to us close to our heart.

Quite the assortment of necklaces, bracelets, and earrings are available; many of which are engravable. Some pieces have a small compartment to hold a portion of cremated remains or a lock of hair.

A relatively new offering is to take an imprint of an animal’s paw or nose and have it made into jewelry. Lockets and pendant necklaces that can accommodate a picture or a stenciled rendition are becoming more popular as well.

#3. Recreate Your Pet’s Likeness

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We never want to forget our pet’s sweet face and distinctive personality. A pet may no longer physically be with us, but there are ways to keep its memory at the forefront of our minds.

Here are just a few ideas that will serve as a reminder that the animal that enriched our life is always with us in spirit:

• Design a custom photo blanket
• Have a picture made into a lifelike pillow
• Ask an artist to paint a portrait
• Get a remembrance tattoo
• Make a picture collage

#4. Place a Memorial in the Garden or Lawn

Many owners find it fitting to memorialize their pet near the home it was so graciously provided.

As humans we have an innate need to connect with the loss of life. Having a dedicated space to do so is a natural way to mourn. Regardless of whether or not a pet’s remains are buried on the property, a place outside where it enjoyed playing or relaxing makes a great location for a memorial.

Plaques and engraved stones are the most common types of outdoor memorials. Wind chimes, garden stakes, and benches are also appropriate choices. You could also plant a tree or shrub in honor of a pet.

#5. Home Display of Urn

Whether it’s playing fetch with the dog, snuggling with the cat on the couch, or watching the bunny hop around the family room, the majority of the memories with our pets are made at home.

One option for a pet that has been cremated is to display its urn in a special place in the house. Some owners and their families select an urn that blends into their home’s decor, while others make it a statement piece.

There are literally hundreds, if not thousands, of urns. They can be made from a wide variety of materials and come in numerous sizes, colors and styles; a lot of which are engravable.

Many families choose to customize an urn with a picture of their beloved pet as a way to capture an unforgettable moment in time.

#6. Plan a Memorial Service

My niece, Ellie, first taught me about pet memorialization. At the age of 8, she held a funeral for her precious hamster, Sally. Accompanied by her best friend and family, Ellie recited a poem and asked guests what they would miss most about Sally. Her hamster was then buried in a flower-filled grave under her swing set.

Grief counselors encourage families to have some type of formal farewell since it is a critical part of the healing process, especially for children. Having a memorial service, whether it be simple or elaborate, provides closure and an opportunity to receive support from others.

A pet service can have the same elements of a regular funeral service. Bible verses may be read, stories told, and memories shared. Displaying photos and memorabilia such as collars, leashes, and toys is the perfect way to spark conversation among guests.

Gone but Not Forgotten

Many people who have had a pet pass away will tell you it was one of the hardest things in life they’ve endured. Finding a way to celebrate it’s life and express gratitude for the unfailing love it so selflessly provided starts us off on the right path to healing.

I’d like to offer my condolences to anyone reading this article who has recently suffered the loss of a pet. Always remember that even though a pet has left your life it never has to leave your heart.

One response to “6 Meaningful Ways to Memorialize a Pet”

1. Peter Maxwell says:

   March 19, 2022 at 10:35 pm

   I think that a dog urn necklace is a great way to remember our beloved pets who have gone. I got mine from https://minimemorials.com/products/dog-urn-necklace and it was really beautiful. A fine way to remember and immortalize my pet’s memory.

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